How close are you to your nearest post office? Many don't know this, but you can have mail sent to any post office as:
Some City, ST 99999-8888
Just replace Some City, ST 99999-8888 with the city, state, and zip of the post office nearest you and have your book delivered there (as long as the place you are ordering from is going to send it via U.S. Mail). See this USPS page
and click on the "General Delivery" tab for details.
If the place you order from is sending via UPS or FedEx there are "hold for will call at hub" options for each of those services as well but you'll have to hunt down the procedures.
I'd expect they may ask to see ID to retrieve your package, so I'd be sure to ship it to your real name.
Hope this helps.
I can see the fnords.